Family Discipleship Resources

by Jun 16, 2023

Our favorite children’s books/series:
  1. Tales that Tell the Truth – series by Alison Mitchell
  2. Big Theology for Little Hearts – series by Devon Provencher
  3. Baby Believer Board Books – series by Danielle Hitchen
  4. God Gave Us – series by Lisa Tawn Bergren
  5. The New City Catechism for Kids – a modern-day resource aimed at teaching the core doctrines of the Christian faith to children ages 4–11
Our favorite spiritual parenting books:
  1. Spiritual Parenting – by Michelle Anthony
  2. Family Discipleship – by Matt Chandler and Andy Griffin
  3. Raising a Modern Day Joseph – by Larry Fowler
  4. The Lifegiving Home: Creating a Place of Belonging and Becoming – by Sally and Sarah Clarkson
Kid-friendly Bibles and Bible reading plans:
  1. Exploring the Bible: A Bible Reading Plan for Kids – this is a resource from Crossway that is geared toward elementary-aged kids
  2. Foundations for Kids – A 260-day reading plan from Lifeway
  3. NIV Adventure Bible – for ages 8–12
  4. The Jesus Storybook Bible – for ages 4–11
  5. Laugh and Grow Bible for Kids – for ages 4–8. This Bible brings context to stories, has visuals, and has it laid out in 52 weeks; it has an accompanying 1-year reading plan as well.
  6. Bible Storybook – for ages 4–8. From The Bible App for Kids (our Epikos Kids nursery curriculum)
  7. The Beginner’s Gospel Story Bible – for 2–6 years. This is the book Epikos gifts to families who go through parent/child dedication
Our favorite websites and podcasts:
  1. The Daily Grace Co – adult Bible studies, family studies, children’s books, and more! (frequent $5 sales!)
  2. Tiny Theologians – age-appropriate spiritual learning resources!
  3. Homefront Magazine – free bi-monthly issue download!
  4. Connected Families – a Minnesota-based family coaching/counseling resource
  5. The Family Discipleship Podcast – Jen Wilkin
  6. God’s Big Story – a podcast for kids! by The Village Church
  7. Ask Away! – a podcast for Kids! by Meredith Miller
  8. Ten Opportunities to Talk to Your Child About God in Everyday Life – Risen Motherhood
  9. We Wonder Podcast – Sarah Dahl

How Hebrew Poetry Works

Rhyming Thoughts

While Western poetry often relies on metered rhyme (similar-sounding words), ancient Israelite poetry doesn’t follow a master system of meter or sound. Instead, its primary organizing principle is the parallelism of lines—essentially, biblical poets “rhyme” thoughts and ideas rather than sounds.

  1. The Heartbeat: Parallelism Parallelism is an “associative mode of thought” where two things are placed next to each other to show their relation. It assumes that to truly understand an idea, you need to grasp another idea that is both similar and distinct. There are three main types:
  • Synonymous: The second line repeats the first using different words (e.g., “The heavens declare the glory of God; / the skies proclaim the work of his hands”).
  • Antithetical: The second line contrasts the first, often using the word “but” (e.g., “The Lord watches over the way of the righteous, / but the way of the wicked leads to destruction”).
  • Synthetic (Progressive): The lines build on each other to tell a developing story or narrative.
  1. The Color: Imagery & Metaphor Biblical poems are “terseness” personified—they use fewer words than normal speech to communicate rich, imaginative experiences. To understand them, we must understand the ancient Israelite worldview. Common metaphors include:
  • The Shepherd: Signifying God’s care, provision, and leadership.
  • The Rock/Fortress: Representing stability, safety, and refuge.
  • Unsafe Landscapes: Using deserts, storms, or waves to signify fear or tests of faith.

The Architecture: Structural Glue

The psalmists didn’t just write individual lines; they used sophisticated “structural glue” to organize their prayers into larger units.

  • Stanzas: Groups of lines that form a distinct “paragraph” or unit of thought.
  • Refrains: A phrase repeated at intervals, like a musical chorus, grounding the reader in a recurring truth during shifts in mood.
  • Inclusio (The Envelope): This is when a poem begins and ends with the same phrase. These “bookends” signal that everything in the middle should be interpreted through that specific frame.
  • Chiasm (Symmetry): A pattern where themes are repeated in reverse order (A-B-C-B-A). In a Chiasm, the “C” (the center) is the “hinge”—it is the most important point the author wants to make.

Our Language of Faith

Themes to Look For

As we dive into the Psalms together, use your reading guide to look for these six specific themes. These aren’t just categories; they are the “language of faith” that helps us trust in Jesus, become like Jesus, and do as Jesus did.

  1. Praise & Hymns (The Language of Adoration) These are songs of “orientation”—they recognize the right order of the world with God at the center. This language is used to express direct worship for who God is, not just what He has done. When we pray these, we align our hearts with the truth of His character.

     

  2. Lament (The Language of Raw Honesty) About one-third of the Psalms are laments—cries of pain, protest, and confusion. This is the language of “disorientation.” These psalms give us permission to bring our grief and anger to God. They remind us that God welcomes our honesty, and bringing our pain to Him is actually a profound act of faith because it assumes He is listening and He is the only one who can help.

     

  3. Petition (The Language of Asking) Petition often goes hand-in-hand with lament. It is the specific cry for help, protection, or intervention. Whether asking God to “wake up” or to “be a shield,” this theme gives us the words to express our total dependence on Him when we are in distress or facing injustice.

     

  4. Thanksgiving (The Language of Rescue) This is the language of “new orientation.” These psalms are the “before and after” stories of the Bible. They are prayed after God has delivered or rescued the psalmist. They move beyond general praise to specific gratitude for a concrete act of God’s faithfulness in time and space.

     

  5. Wisdom (The Language of Reflection) Wisdom psalms (like Psalm 1 or 119) invite us to reflect on how to live life well. They often contrast “two ways” of living—the way of the righteous who meditate (hagah) on God’s Word and the way of those who ignore it. This language helps us navigate the complexities of life in light of God’s instructions.

     

  6. Royal (The Language of Hope) Royal psalms focus on the King or the promised “Anointed One.” While they originally spoke of the Davidic kings, they point us toward the ultimate King, Jesus. This is the language of waiting and hope, looking forward to the day when God’s Kingdom fully arrives on earth as it is in heaven.

Reflect & Apply:

The 150-Day Challenge

Our challenge to you is to read one Psalm a day over the next 150 days. 

Choose Your Journey
  • The 150-Day Challenge: Read one Psalm a day for a steady, transformative experience.
  • The Five Books & Torah Plan: Early Judaism arranged the Psalms into five “books” to mirror the five books of the Torah. This plan invites you to read the Psalms alongside Genesis–Deuteronomy to see how our prayers and God’s instructions connect.

As you read, use these three questions from your bookmark to guide your meditation:

  • How should this psalm make you feel? Notice the psalmist’s raw honesty. What emotion is it designed to help you express to God right now?
  • Where is Jesus? Many psalms come from someone waiting on God. What is this psalm waiting for? Does Jesus answer that wait, or did He experience that same wait Himself?
  • Can you use this psalm to talk to God right now? If so, pray it! If not, “hide it in your heart”—you may need it soon.
Happy meditating (hagah-ing)!

 

Dive Deeper

Recommended Resources

If you want to go even further in your study of biblical poetry and the Psalms, here are some excellent resources compiled from our class:

Watch & Learn

The BibleProject has created several incredible video series that bring these concepts to life. We highly recommend checking out:

How to Read the Bible series: Includes specific videos on Poetry, Poetic Metaphor, and The Book of Psalms.

Read & Explore